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  • Sweden

    Taking your shoes off

    When visiting a Swede´s home, always remember to take your shoes off at the front door. Some people (especially the elder, I have noticed) always bring a little bag with their indoor shoes in but this is not required. Clean and whole socks are recommended, though...

    Does anyone know why Swedes have that custom?

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    By Bitte Olsson Number of posts: 211032 days ago.

  • Sweden

    In the part of the Netherlands were I come from we also take off our shoes in the house. I am used to it and like it. Don't carry in crap into the house. Have you ever walked your dog in the forrest in the autumn and then came home with you shoes on? ... then you understand why you take off your shoes.

    Also it is not very good for your feet to have your shoes on all day.

    What I don't do but most swedes do is have special office shoes/sandals to go around in at work.

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    By André Number of posts: 91031 days ago.

  • Sweden

    Hehe, that's all true Bitte. I know som exchange students, and they also commented about that swedish people always take of their shoes off at the front door.

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    By David Bustos Number of posts: 171031 days ago.

  • Sweden

    Nice to hear that other people stay to their senses and being hygienic. I totallt agree with you that it is a bit dirty. I studied in the Netherlands for a while, in an area where they did not have that habit. And I ALWAYS forgot keeping my shoes on.

    Having a pair of shoes at work is a good idea, especially in the winter when you get really warm in your well-padded winter boots.

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    By Bitte Olsson Number of posts: 211029 days ago.

  • United Kingdom

    It's funny how quickly things become second nature. When I first moved to Sweden it took a while to get used to this after a lifetime of stomping around UK houses with my boots on. But before long I found it felt more and more natural, and found myself looking disapprovingly and tut-tutting at my friends when I went back to the UK to find everyone else in their normal habits.

    Nowadays, having been married to a Swede for 5 years, it wouldn't occur to me to do anything else. Which is a bit of a problem sometimes now that we've moved back to the UK where the stereotype about cold houses is, generally, pretty much true. Luckily my wife's grandmother left a legacy of a lifetime supply of home-knitted woolly socks.

    On a connected note, the other thing that I used to love and now can't stand is carpets. I used to think of them as cosy, welcoming and comfortable. Now, after those nice fresh Swedish wooden floors, they just strike me as rather dusty and a real pain to clean.

    Ah well, next I'll start thinking it's strange to have two separate taps in the bathroom... 

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    By Bob Carter Number of posts: 2821015 days ago.

  • USA

    Cleanliness and respect for the home is my best guess, as that's been instilled in me by family, both in Sweden and in the US.  I cannot imagine living any other way.  :o)

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    By Isle Dance Number of posts: 11012 days ago.

  • Argentina

    I think this is for not to bring home the dirty from outside, specially when snows. At first it was very strange to me but i liked it. Everything is so clean!. My father also loves sweden and he wanted to use the same tradition here in Argentina... i told him, is not going to work here, people is not used to do that.

    I think is a very intelligent idea!

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    By Ruth Maria Veira Sand Number of posts: 11011 days ago.

  • United Kingdom

    Actually this wouldn't be a problem for me at all. I have done it all my life and the first thing I do when getting home is to take my shoes off and put on some slippers. When visiting I tend to take my slippers with me and do the same. I know that it's probably not a standard in England but there are certainly a few of us who understand the logic of doing this.

    It's something my family has always done. However, on the occasions my brother pops in on his way home from work to have a chat before heading off to his home, I have to say I wish he kept his trainers on.He has the most pongful, my own word to emphasise the smelliness, feet I have ever known. :)

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    By Jonathan Pilkington Number of posts: 281003 days ago.

  • Sweden

    ha ha ... perhaps if he aired is feet more often they wouldn't smell so much. 

     

    I love the idea of Guest slippers (if the guests also keep their socks on for hygiene purposes). I saw a giant slipper in a store window yesterday. One that you could hang by the door and use as storage for the guest slippers. Really cool!

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    By Maria Ziv Number of posts: 181002 days ago.

  • United Kingdom

    He he, yes I shall have to tactfully make that suggestion.

    Yes the large slipper looks like a good idea, something original by the sounds of it.

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    By Jonathan Pilkington Number of posts: 281001 days ago.

  • Sweden

    I come from an area where this practice is very common.  I was surprised to see this in Sweden.  In the tribal belts of my country this is very normal to take off shoes.

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    By Visitor Number of posts: 4986 days ago.

  • Ireland

    Would it be found offensive by a Swedish family if I forgot to take my shoes off at the front door? I don't usually but I know in Japanese culture it can be frowned on socially!

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    By Jason Nixon Number of posts: 1986 days ago.

  • France

    I've always been teached that habit of taking outside shoes off both from my dad who is french and my mom who is Quebecoise. I also did it while living in france, Netherlands and Montreal (Canada). I find it respectfull both for the floors and the tenant of the home! :-)So is that enough to seduce a swede man? hihihi

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    By Genevieve Neuville Number of posts: 1977 days ago.

  • Italy

    After a day at work. it's nice walk at home without shoes, very relaxing and it is a way to feel more at home. I like socks and walk with my personal slippers; also because in Italy the houses have not carpets, the floors especially in winter are cold. When I travel, I have in the suitcase my Nice slippers.to feel at home everywhere.

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    By massimo Carboni Number of posts: 14975 days ago.

  • Sweden

    Funny how this subject is so much disussed here, isn´t it? Seems like we should found a club - the International Association for Really Nice Socks?

    Anyway, I thought of a situation where it is more common to use shoes inside. If invited to a private party that is more of a festive occasion, like New Year´s Eve parties, you could bring a pair of nice (high heeled) shoes to go with your clothes. But it is not compulsory - at the party with friends that I visited, half of the guests had shoes and the other half had put their money in a pair of really nice socks that they wanted to show off... (I wore some really high heeled pumps, but that was only because my trousers were too long...)

    Just remember - it is never OK to use the shoes you wore outside.

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    By Bitte Olsson Number of posts: 21974 days ago.

  • Italy

    OK for this club, is nice smile with little, Viva socks and slippers, but also of hot shoes to go out

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    By massimo Carboni Number of posts: 14973 days ago.

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